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Wednesday, May 23, 2007

Group work with Adolescents

I just realized that I have not mentioned anything in here about my work with adolescents this semester! I am currently doing my clinical practice at a High School College for students with learning difficulties such autism, asperger's syndrome, down syndrome, speech and language impairment, ADHD, anxiety etc.

This is my first hands on experience in conducting group music therapy sessions with this population and also had to work with the speech pathology students with one of the groups. It has been a challenging and learning experience to be running group sessions with these students. Imagine a bunch of adolescents are already difficult enough what more adolescents with different social, emotional, cognitive and physical needs.

Basically, I have been running an all boys group of 13-14 years of age who are lonely in school, have difficulties socializing, often bullied, have attention deficits and anxiety problems. These hyperactive boys keep me and my co-partner on our toes all the time! They are called "Beat Makers". Our goals for them were to form a safe and comfortable group to work on their social skills, team work, turn taking, and encourage positive behavior within the group. I have seen and learned so much just by leading these boys in activities that promote interaction through instrument play, singing and music listening.

It was interesting to see how these boys, each with their own distinct personalities, trying to form an identity for themselves within the group, how they tried to outdo each other, how they conversed with the person in the group that they admire, how they asked each other questions that they have been dying to ask but didn't dare, how they can be so encouraging and sensitive sometimes to other boys and yet on other times being a pain in the neck. As a therapist and a facilitator, I have learned to actually observe each of their personalities and to bring out the best in them within the group, to pull whatever thoughts, issues or opinion that they have mentioned and to put it to the group for discussion. Just a couple of weeks ago, one of our sessions were video taped and boy, that was the worst session that we've had with the boys all distracted and running all over the place. Yet, that was when I learned so much more about what I could have done and the week after that was so much better.

The other group that I had to co-lead was the totally opposite. They were all girls group called "Girl Power". Girls being girls are often more mature and I do not have to spend my energy running around. These girls were referred because of social and emotional issues. Their sessions were centred around group discussion on issues faced such as family problems, learning to say "NO", forming an identity for themselves, having a support group, how to handle anxiety and depression.

We used lots of lyric analysis, group songwriting and instrument improvisation to draw out these issues that the face and bring them into the group for discussion. At the same time, the group were to learn to use their social skill strategies such as maintaining eye contact when talking, taking turns to share thoughts and opinion, learning to listen to each other and communicate verbally and non-verbally.

These were the 2 contrasting groups that I have to handle. But these students remind me about my high school days when these issues were really real and hard to handle even for myself, what more for these students who have other difficulties. Nevertheless, there is a need to motivate these groups to form positive team work and learn from each other.

"COMPLETE"

Jac, Kelvin, Chia Yen & I

Here are some pictures of both my leaders' wedding 2 weeks ago. Chia Yen, the bride is now my shepherd in church and Kelvin, the bridegroom is also my CG leader. So ya, was really exciting to be part of their celebration and to play for them. Hehe!

Beautiful Gals....

Also, the walk in song "Complete" by Parachute band is simple but meanigful. I remember I used to like Parachute band because of their "cool" chords, arrangement and meaningful lyrics in their songs. I think I even attended one of their concerts back home some years ago! Well here it is:

Here I am, Oh God
I bring this sacrifice
My open heart, I offer up my life
I look to You, Lord
Your love that never ends
Restores me again

So I lift my eyes to you Lord
In your strength will I break through Lord
Touch me now, let your love fall down on me
I know your love dispels all my fears
Through the storm I will hold on Lord
And by faith I will walk on Lord
Then I'll see beyond my calvary one day
And I will be complete in You

Wednesday, May 09, 2007

Into Your Arms of Love I Run

One morning during quiet time, I just picked up my guitar and thought I would start off with some songs of worship. But that day, I felt that I just wanted to sing something from my heart to the Lord. Then I remembered what God spoke to me during group shepherding, in Psalm 27. God spoke to me through David where he had such confidence in God in the midst off difficult circumstances. And I came to realize that such confidence in the Lord, can only come through the intimate relationship he had with Christ. Do I have that intimate relationship with Christ that I can truly say I trust in Him in all circumstances?

Then, I remembered during OC, Kelvin prophesied over me, saying that I tend to think and reason a lot to a certain extend I had doubts in my heart. And that was really true that I find it difficult to accept some things as it is, and often question if it is the work of the Lord. However, if I desire to grow in intimacy with Him, I’ll need to put away all fears and doubts. It is time that I should just allow the Holy Spirit to move in my life by faith.

Therefore, this song is a reflection and my prayer to be like David in Psalm 27, who wants nothing more but the intimacy with God forever.

Into Your Arms of Love I Run

Verse 1:

I come into your courts today

Humbly just as I am

Take me into the intimate place

I’m longing to hear your voice

Pre-chorus:

Speak to me, Lord

Your servant’s waiting

Touch me again, Lord

I surrender all

Chorus:

Into your arms of love I run

You set me high upon the rock

Your face O Lord, will I seek

In Your temple will I praise

(For you I’ll worship, all of my days)

Verse 2:

Lord, teach me your way today

Lead me into your path

Take away my heart of doubt

I’m longing to hear your voice


Saturday, May 05, 2007

Bridal Showers!

"Moulin Rouge" - Val's bridal shower

Just this year, I've attended 2 bridal showers in Aussie! They are really a BIG thing here......like the last hang out party as a single.....girls with girls and guys with guys. The Aussies here do crazy stuff in public to embarrass the person who's getting married. But us, being girls, we're often very tame.....and rather hang out at friends house to chit chat. Hehe!

I had a wonderful opportunity here to play for these 2 weddings. Had the privilege to arrange the wedding processional and play with the quartet for my ex-flatmate's wedding that was in March. And coming up is my CG leader's wedding.....on Sat!

Low cost bridal gowns!

Yen & I